It was the stare that broke the internet — the legendary face-off between Elijah Connor and Sean “Diddy” Combs on Fox TV’s The Four: Battle For Stardom — looping endlessly on timelines through memes, GIFs, and headlines, etched into the fabric of pop culture.

This was the stare-down that transcended television and ignited a cultural firestorm.

But what the world didn’t see was the storm brewing behind the scenes.

Now, for the first time ever, the man behind the viral moment breaks his silence.



In his fearless and explosive memoir, Behind The Stare, singer, reality TV star, and younger cousin of the late Prince, Elijah Connor, pulls back the velvet curtain, revealing truth bombs on what really happened before and after the cameras rolled — and why standing his ground nearly cost him everything.

“I wrote this book because I knew the day would come when the truth could no longer stay buried. Not just for me — but for the victims who were silenced. For those too afraid to speak out. For those who whispered, ‘There’s more to this.’ There was. And now, I’m telling it.” — Elijah Connor

What millions saw as a meme was, in truth, a moment of survival — a young artist refusing to be broken, bullied, or bought.

What looked like a meme was really a message.

This memoir isn’t just a tell-all — it’s a true testament to resilience, resistance, and survival.

It serves as a lifeline for anyone who’s ever faced a monster and dared to stare back.

Behind The Stare will be released August 2025 by Penguin Light Publishing.

Follow Elijah on all platforms: @elijahconnor

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Pamela J. Broussard, Communications professional and contributor with over 25 years of experience in entertainment, media, and storytelling.

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